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Go Wide, Then Deep
Go wide, then deep.
Men want to improve themselves.
They want to make more money, get more fit, and meet more women.
But they don't know where to start.
So they just dive deep into a specific method which their friend recommended, or some Twitter Guru shared after taking a handsome amount for that:
Intermittent fasting to get fit
Facebook ads to make more money
Cold approaching to meet more women
All of these are good strategies.
But
Sometimes what happens is - it doesn’t fit their personality.
Cold approaching isn’t for everyone.
Facebook ads might not work for someone who’s better off doing manual labor.
Intermittent fasting might not be the right fit for your schedule.
And once this clash of personal philosophy vs. a set strategy fails, the man loses hope that self-improvement might never work for him.
What’s the underlying problem here?
You’re going deep - not wide.
You have no idea what works for you at this point.
You could be better off cold DMing 50 girls per day on dating apps vs. cold approaching in real life.
Designing Websites might be your true calling vs. making money on Twitter.
Eating under 2,000 calories per day and lifting 3x per week might be better for you vs. intermittent fasting.
Go wide.
Try out everything in small increments.
See what appeals to you and slowly go deep in that area.
Don’t overcommit to anything.
People don’t become specialists overnight.
You’re better off starting as a generalist, getting a taste of everything out there, and then seeing what’s your true calling.
Treat your self-improvement like it’s your second job.
It requires deep thought + trial and error.
You have no clue what’s most optimal for you until you diversify your approach and see what truly fits your schedule, personality, and temperament best.
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Looking forward for you to become your best version! Until next time.......
Your Man,
MMM
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