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What to do if she GHOSTS YOU?
Learn how to deal with a girl ghosting you via text
Let’s say you meet a girl at a party or through a dating app.
You have some back and forth via texting, and then you say “Let’s go out for drinks this weekend.”
But she doesn’t respond, what do you do?
Is this a classic case of her ghosting you?
Maybe.
But here’s something to remember.
If she has Snapchat, Instagram, Facebook, and whatever else on her phone with notifications on, it’s possible your text simply got buried. Not to mention other people could be texting her which is really putting your text 6-feet under.
Or she got busy and overwhelmed with something else and it occupied her mind.
Double texting here is okay.
Wait 1–3 days and follow up with “Did anyone ever tell you how talkative you are?”
This is on the snarkier and sarcastic side. It’s got a bad boy vibe to it.
You can also go with “If you’re too nervous meeting a handsome Indian guy, I understand.” (In this example you’re obviously Indian. Change Indian to whatever your ethnicity is.)
Under no circumstance do you say “You know, ghosting is extremely disrespectful.”
Do not signal that you’re offended. She’s not your girlfriend.
She’s stranger; she doesn’t need a lesson in manners.
Use humor and sarcasm instead to show you’re easy going and have a “I don’t give a F” attitude.
Q: “Why should I double text her? If she’s interested in me, she’ll look for my text instead of letting it get buried.”
A: That’s possible. This can be her ghosting you because of low interest. But it’s also possible enough time and interaction hasn’t taken place where she even knows what level of interest she has in you at this point.
That’s why I would do one follow up.
If she doesn’t respond after that, then yeah she’s ghosting you and it’ll be time to move on.
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