ESCAPE THE NICE GUY SYNDROME TODAY!

Nice Guys Finish Last (if at all they finish). They only get what’s left behind by the Bad Boys.

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Welcome back to MMM Newsletter, dedicated to helping you put your best foot forward in various aspects of life. Today’s topic of discussion is the NICE GUY SYNDROME.

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What is NICE GUY SYNDROME?

In simple words, it means the attitude and behavior of those men who believe that being overly nice, accommodating, and self-sacrificing will entitle them to romantic or sexual attention from women.

In their pursuit of being overly nice and self-sacrificing for women, they exhibit many traits. Some of them are briefly described in the Twitter thread here. (Must check this thread)

Women prefer to see these nice guys as their “Friends”, not “Lovers”. Their cavewoman brain does not see the Potential Protector for themselves and their progeny in this nice guy. So they don’t find a lover in him, and friendzone him.

When their “huge investments” are not reciprocated by women, the nice guys may harbor feelings of frustration, resentment, or entitlement. Their characteristics may include:

1. Passive-aggressiveness: Nice Guys may express frustration indirectly, often making passive-aggressive comments or behaving in ways that hint at their disappointment.

2. Martyr complex: They may see themselves as perpetual victims, sacrificing their own needs for others without receiving the desired rewards.

3. Unhealthy expectations: Nice Guys may have unrealistic expectations about relationships, believing that their niceness should automatically lead to romantic success.

4. Lack of authenticity: They may suppress their true feelings or needs, fearing that expressing them will make them less "nice" and therefore less deserving of attention.

5. Friendship as a strategy: Some individuals with Nice Guy Syndrome befriend women with the expectation that their kindness will eventually be rewarded with romantic or sexual interest.

HOW TO ESCAPE NICE GUY SYNDROME??

If you recognize that you may be exhibiting traits associated with Nice Guy Syndrome and want to change these behaviors, here are some steps you can take to escape the syndrome:

1. Become a BAD BOY

   Bad Boy? Really? Why? and How?

   When I say bad boy, I don’t mean you should engage in catcalling or criminal activities. NOT AT ALL. What I mean is - Inculcate the bad boy traits which women love, which give their cavewoman brain the “feeling” of protection from unknown dangers.

   What are these traits? - Check this thread

2. Learn to say NO!

   You don’t need to be a people pleaser. Focus on your happiness and peace. Focus on your goals. Focus on your business. Focus on your physical health. Focus on your mental health. Focus on YOURSELF. You don’t need to sacrifice yourself for others, especially for women who don’t value it.

3. Practice assertiveness

   Learn to assert yourself in a respectful and confident manner. Express your needs and desires directly without resorting to passive-aggressive behavior or manipulation.

4. Develop Abundance Mindset

   Abundant man never shows neediness. When you exhibit the bad boy traits, flirt with a woman, and still she puts you in friendzone, you must approach another one. Understand that YOU ARE THE PRIZE.

5. Get this Guide specifically designed for You!

   This guide focuses specifically on the Nice Guys - How they can get better with Women.

Looking forward for you to become your best version! Until next time.......

Your Man,

MMM