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Is being a "Nice Guy" a good idea?
Read this and decide for yourself.
This is a complaint made by a woman:
“Been talking to a guy I don’t find physically attractive. He’s the nicest guy I’ve ever dated - brings me roses to work and when we go out, texts me every day, is a great listener, very thoughtful, and is super sweet.
He’s been pursuing me for weeks, but for the life of me I don’t find him attractive. At all!
Any girl would wish to have a guy like this! Idk what’s wrong with me. I know he’d make a great husband and father.
I just can’t picture myself getting intimate or even kissing him, I just can’t do it.
What do I do??
Should I keep trying or do I just be honest and break it off?”
There are 3 issues being pointed out here.
1. SHE HAS LOW INTEREST IN HIM
If a woman has low interest/low attraction for you, what can you do?
You can (and must) make changes to Your Appearance, if you're not already there. You MUST BE PHYSICALLY ATTRACTIVE for a woman to think of getting intimate with you.
Wear well-fitted clothes
Wear clean shoes
Wear a good perfume
Get rid of the extra fat
Gain muscles and get buffed up
Get a good haircut
Groom your facial hairs
What if you're already groomed up and don't have much changes required in your appearance AND still the girl has no (or low) interest in you?
You can’t do much here. Not everyone has the same tastes and preferences. If she isn't attracted to you - She isn't. Move on and get another girl.
2. HE IS A NICE GUY
Here comes the main issue. Even if this guy is average looking/ unattractive to her, but by being so predictable, he removed any mystery and desire from this equation.
I haven’t seen their texting history, but the way she speaks of it - we can deduce that he is making a lot of texting mistakes too.
He brings roses and texts her every day, is a great listener, super sweet - all these are the Nice Guy Traits you must avoid.
As a man, you have to pull back. YOU CANNOT BE THIS OBVIOUS.
Do not send her flowers, do not text her first thing in the morning. Stop being a Yes man.
You can do that when you’re in an established relationship and her desire for you is high.
But it’s always better to have her chase you. Even if she’s your girlfriend, there still has to be some level of mystery that's needed.
3. HE DOESN’T ESCALATE
Notice she says “I can’t picture myself getting intimate with this guy.”
A woman MUST imagine herself kissing you or getting intimate BEFORE she can actually kiss you. If she can’t picture it in her head, she will never be agreeing for it in real.
This is again on the guy to make her think of it - By Escalating
You need to touch her multiple times to make her comfortable with your touch. Escalate your conversation and start talking dirty sometimes. Make her invest in relationship - She should invest more than you do. Make her do things for you.
Final Opinion - This woman needs to break it off with this guy and stop leading him on. And the guy needs to learn to be more reserved and less open.
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