How do Women MANIPULATE Men? and How you can Save Yourself?

“Women are born players. They master the art of manipulation.”

This week I wrote a Twitter thread on ways how women MANIPULATE men which was appreciated by a big audience. In case you missed it, you can find it here.

We’ll have a look at How You Can SAVE YOURSELF from getting manipulated by these tricks.

(If you’ve not read the tweet, I recommend to check that first)

1. TEARS

You must understand that women are emotional creatures. She cries because of her current mood (that she’s not able to get what she wants).

What to do: CHANGE HER MOOD!

Yes, lift up her mood. Tickle her, Playfully tease her. Use your words to cheer her up and change her mood from upset one to a happy one (You should know how to do this).

2. WITHDRAWAL

Women crave your attention. Many times she uses this method when you’re not giving her enough attention. She does this to get you into panic mode. You feel maybe you forgot her birthday, or did something wrong - and spend your whole day thinking about her.

What to do: Discuss with her, build emotional connection, take her out on a date - Spend some quality time with her!

3. GUILT

She takes you on guilt trip so that you fall for her demands.

What to do: Ignore the topic. Don’t fall in her frame by replying/justifying yourself. There are lots of times when you’ve given her great experiences, so it doesn’t matter if you have done a couple of things which didn’t go well - You don’t need to feel guilty for it. Be a Man, Control your emotions!

4. JEALOUSY

She tries to make you jealous so you fall in her frame (and she can control you).

What to do: CONTROL YOUR EMOTIONS

If you get Angry, Jealous, Upset - You fall in her frame and you've LOST IT. You have to keep your emotions under control, and understand how you can best tackle this sh!t test.

Suggested Approach:

• Ignore the topic (and manipulatively change the subject to something so that she herself feels guilty of bringing up the jealousy aspect)

• Flip it back to her (Frame herself as jealous) - Let’s say she was bringing up topic of a male colleague, but you can bring up a female colleague in between. But do it in such a way that you don’t fall in her frame.

  (See Mistakes to avoid falling in her frame)

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5. BUTTERING UP

She compliments you too much when she wants something from you.

What to do: Be skeptical when she starts to compliment you aggressively. Understand that she wants something and try to deduce what she wants. Don’t give in so easily by just her words.

If she wants something out of you - She should EARN IT.

6. S3X DENIAL

She does this because she thinks “It is her who controls s3x”. She appeals to your lust. She may wear some s3xy outfits in front of you and try to manipulate you to do what she wants.

What to do: NOT BE NEEDY (Control Your Lust)

Show her who’s the boss. It is her who needs s3x from you more than you want it from her. Be dominant enough not to give in to her demands.

Easy example:

She wears a s3xy lingerie to appeal to your lust and says “Honey, Please do the dishes and join me in bed”.

The weak man falls into her frame and does what she says. But to save yourself from manipulation, you have to maintain your masculine frame. Doing dishes and other household chores is her woman job, when you’re doing your man job of provide and protect. DON’T NEAUTRALISE THE POLARITY!

The strong man will dominantly get close to her, playfully touch her with heavy breathing, and arouse her lust. She herself will submit to the strong man and agree to do the dishes and JOIN HIM IN BED.

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Looking for a better man in you! Until next time……..

Your Man,

MMM